Seniors

I’m worried I might be viewed as weak if I go to counseling.

Senior men may be worried about seeking counseling being viewed as a weakness due to cultural and societal norms that place a high value on self-reliance, independence, and stoicism. Seeking help for mental health concerns may be seen as a sign of weakness, vulnerability, or an inability to handle problems on their own. Senior men may also have grown up in a time when mental health was not well understood, and seeking help for mental health concerns was stigmatized or even taboo. This can lead to feelings of shame or embarrassment about seeking help and make it harder for senior men to reach out for support. Additionally, senior men may have concerns about the cost of counseling, access to transportation, or fear of being stigmatized or discriminated against based on their age, gender, or other factors.

Growing up, counseling was frowned upon, why should I go?

Senior men may worry about stigma regarding counseling for several reasons. Firstly, they may believe that seeking help for mental health issues is a sign of weakness or that it goes against traditional masculine values of self-reliance and independence. Secondly, they may fear being labeled as "crazy" or "unstable" by family, friends, or their community. Lastly, they may be concerned that seeking counseling may harm their reputation or standing in their workplace or other social settings. These fears can lead to feelings of shame or embarrassment, making it difficult for senior men to seek the help they need.

I don’t know much about counseling, will it help?

Seniors may not understand mental health due to a lack of education and awareness about mental health conditions, including symptoms and treatment options. There may be a generational stigma around mental health and seeking help for mental health issues, which can make it difficult for seniors to understand the importance of seeking counseling. Additionally, seniors may be more likely to attribute mental health symptoms to physical health problems or simply "getting old," rather than recognizing them as treatable mental health conditions. Finally, there may be a lack of access to mental health resources for seniors, particularly those who are isolated or live in rural areas.

I am currently on Medicare, can I afford counseling?

Seniors who are on Medicare may have some coverage for mental health services. Medicare Part B covers outpatient mental health services, including individual and group therapy, as well as some diagnostic tests, such as psychological evaluations. Medicare Part B typically covers 80% of the approved cost for mental health services, and the individual is responsible for the remaining 20%. Seniors may also have access to counseling services through community health centers, mental health clinics, or other low-cost or sliding-scale fee options. Additionally, some nonprofit organizations may offer free or low-cost counseling services for seniors. It may be helpful to speak with a Medicare representative or a mental health provider who accepts Medicare to learn more about specific coverage options.

I am unable to drive anymore, how can I get to counseling?

Seniors who are unable to drive may face challenges in accessing counseling services. However, there are still options available to them. Many counseling services now offer teletherapy, which allows seniors to receive counseling sessions from the comfort of their own homes using videoconferencing technology. Additionally, some counseling services may offer transportation assistance for seniors who cannot drive or arrange for a mobile counselor to come to their homes. Family members or caregivers may also be able to assist seniors in getting to counseling appointments. It is important for seniors to discuss transportation concerns with their counselor or counseling service in order to find a solution that works for them.

If I go to counseling, will I be sent to a home or lose my independence?

Seniors might worry about losing their independence or being put in a home after they attend counseling because they may perceive seeking help as a sign of weakness or a threat to their ability to maintain control over their lives. They may be concerned that by admitting to mental health issues or needing assistance, they will be viewed as unable to care for themselves, leading to the possibility of being institutionalized or losing their independence. Additionally, many seniors may have experienced negative connotations associated with receiving care in institutions, which can create fear and anxiety around seeking help. It's essential to emphasize that seeking counseling is a sign of strength and can help seniors maintain their independence by improving their mental and emotional well-being.

I’m not sure about talking with a stranger, won’t it be awkward opening up to someone?

Seniors may be reluctant to open up to a counselor for a variety of reasons. They may feel embarrassed or ashamed about their struggles or fear being judged by the counselor. Seniors may also be hesitant to share personal information with a stranger or worry that they will be misunderstood or not taken seriously. Additionally, seniors may have a sense of self-reliance and may not want to burden others with their problems or appear weak. Trust can also be a factor, as seniors may be hesitant to confide in someone they do not know well or fear that the counselor may share their information with others. Overall, it is important for counselors to create a safe and welcoming environment for seniors to encourage them to open up and receive the support they need.

Isn’t what I’m experiencing just a part of the aging process?

As seniors age, they may experience physical changes, such as decreased mobility or chronic health conditions, that can impact their daily life. However, it is important to understand that mental health issues are not a normal part of the aging process. Many seniors may be hesitant to seek counseling because they believe that their emotional struggles are simply a result of getting older or that they should be able to handle their issues on their own. However, mental health concerns such as depression, anxiety, and PTSD are not a natural part of aging and can significantly impact a senior's quality of life. Seeking counseling can help seniors address these issues and improve their overall well-being.

If I go to counseling will it burden my family?

Seniors may be hesitant to seek counseling out of fear that it will burden their family members. They may feel that discussing their mental health concerns will put an emotional burden on their loved ones, who may already have a lot on their plate. Additionally, some seniors may have a sense of pride and feel like they should be able to handle their problems on their own without relying on others. However, it's important for seniors to recognize that seeking help can actually alleviate the burden on their family, as it can lead to improved mental health and a better quality of life. Additionally, counseling can help seniors develop coping strategies and communication skills that can improve their relationships with their loved ones.

Statistics

  • Men over the age of 85 have the highest rate of suicide among any age group.

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  • Depression affects around 5% of older men.

  • Depression affects about 7 million Americans over the age of 65, but only about 10% receive treatment.

  • About 1 in 7 older men have reported experiencing severe anxiety symptoms.

  • Only 34% of older men with depression seek professional help.

  • Approximately 1 in 3 seniors experiences loneliness and social isolation, which can negatively impact mental health.

  • Older men are more likely to experience loss and grief, which can lead to depression and other mental health issues.

  • Substance abuse and addiction are growing issues among older adults, including senior men.

  • Older men who identify as LGBT+ face unique mental health challenges, including social isolation and discrimination.